Mentality

**Not a hate blog for women**

A few weeks ago on October 01 2022, I had an accident. 

I was crossing a road I checked everything but still 

a private car Noah ran over my leg it was 7:38 in the morning.

The driver ran after that. So a few people came forward to help. I was shouting Allah's name for pain.

So a lot of things happen between then. My leg got shattered a bit. So I had to go for the operation.

There was no other way. Days passed by I had my first relationship and I ended it too.

So I had to start my classes in this situation as well cause in a few months I have my exams.

So now I have to cross big roads with a cratch where I put my weight on.

So it's a bit difficult for me to walk now. But what to do the world goes on. 

But now a matter of fact is I have learned a lot of things in these few days. 

I learned how to maintain a relationship, how to talk to people in a good manner, 

how to be smart, and how to not stop even you're injured. But the most important thing that I have 

learned is people's mentality. So for a few days while I was crossing those big roads alone

people not all of them but generous ones a matter of fact each one of them was male. The female person's who were crossing roads beside me, just cared about themselves but the men who helped me  Allah bless'em.

It's not about helping me cross the road. The question is why do you have to surpass or overtake to be the first one to pass the barrier between the roads???!!!

You can just walk normally.

Again it's not a hate blog for women.

Today two guys came up and said, "Brother do you need help to cross the road?"

I couldn't say anything but by my expression he understood and kept helping me I thanked him later.

 So the lesson here is that we men who are the real ones,  girls or women might start helping after reading this but that would be for show only.

 It wouldn't be from their heart. Some people even tried to outrun me. 

So the lesson is for the boys and the men we all are in this world by ourselves no one will be with us 

by our side other than our creator Almighty Allah.

So no matter what happens trust yourself and march on...